你有没有踩雷？5个作死爱情的细节

 

真爱是人人都向往的，但是在恋爱的过程中没有人可以左右你的idea,只有你自己才能选择你的Mr.Charming，也只有你自己才能决定结束这段感情还是继续前行。

今天我们就来聊聊如何作死一段感情。

 

 

 

1. You are unhappy in your relationship. 你在恋情里并不开心。

 

If you often feel unhappy, uncomfortable, stressed, or even burdened, it's the first and most important sign you're in a destructive dead-end relationship.

如果你经常感到不开心、不舒服、有压力，甚至有负担，这是关系破裂的首个也是最重要的标志。

 

 

 

2. Your partner is too controlling.

你对象管你管的太严了。

 

 

 

Watch out if your significant other spies on you, monitors your phone conversations, social media, and e-mail, wants you to share everything, and even demands you turn over your paycheck.

小心你身边的伴侣，对方可能会监控你的电话，社交媒体和电子邮件，希望你分享一切，甚至要求你交出薪水。

 

                                 

3. Your partner always underestimates you and your achievements

你的伴侣总是低估你和你的成就。

 

 

It's time for you to leave if you often hear from your partner that you're just an ordinary person with so-so achievements. They're trying to convince you that no one will ever appreciate you, but the worst thing is that you start to believe it's true.

如果你经常听到你的伴侣说你只是一个普通的人，那么你还是离开吧。他们试图让你相信没有人会欣赏你，但最糟糕的是你开始相信这话是真的。

 

                                                  

4. It's almost impossible to plan your future together.

几乎不可能一起计划你的未来。

 

 

If you never talk or can't ever think about your future, it's one of those signs you're in a toxic relationship.

如果你从不发表意见，或永远不思考你的未来，那你已处于一种有害的关系中了。

 

                                                    

5. Your partner always tries to make you feel guilty.

你的伴侣总是试图让你感到内疚。

 

 

 

Your partner always tries to put the blame on you for what's going on with your relationship. As a result, you often feel like you have to explain something, although you shouldn't.

你的伴侣总试图把两人之间出现的问题归咎于你。因此，你经常觉得自己不得不解释一些事情，尽管你不应该解释。